Sheboygan community rallies to save local VFW Post's free Veterans Day breakfast event

Sheboygan, Wis — Despite rainy weather, hundreds of people showed up in Sheboygan to celebrate veterans and keep an annual Veterans Day tradition alive. The event, which has featured biscuits and gravy, bacon, sausage, scrambled eggs, French toast and pancakes for more than a decade, was in jeopardy this year due to staffing and volunteer shortages following the death of its quartermaster, Dave Fretig, in September.

The VFW Post 9156 has been a cornerstone of the Sheboygan community for decades, providing a space for veterans to connect and receive support. The annual Veterans Day breakfast wasn’t just about food; it was a symbol of that connection, a tangible expression of gratitude for their service. The loss of Fretig, who dedicated years to the post and its traditions, created a significant void, threatening to disrupt this vital community event.

However, local business owner Christina Hephner stepped in to help. 'I saw the post online saying their commander just passed away, and they were navigating their way through their operation,' said Hephner. She put out a call for volunteers and donations, and the response was overwhelming.

'Our wonderful community stepped in, and got tons of donations, and tons of volunteers, and I think it's gonna be really awesome today,' said Hephner. 'This place is home. You know, it makes me emotional because so many people showed up.'

The Loss of Dave Fretig and its Impact

Dave Fretig’s passing left a significant hole in VFW Post 9156. Serving as commander for roughly ten years before transitioning to quartermaster, he was instrumental in organizing and maintaining many of the post’s activities, including the beloved Veterans Day breakfast. His absence wasn't just a loss of leadership; it represented the erosion of institutional knowledge and a decline in the volunteer base that keeps the post functioning. Many smaller VFW posts across the nation face similar challenges as veteran populations age and younger generations are less likely to join, highlighting a broader trend of dwindling membership and resources within the organization.

What Happened

Victor Dominguez, owner of Las Brisas in Plymouth, was among those who volunteered to help prepare and serve the food. 'When the need is there, community always steps in. We don't have a complaint on that part,' said Dominguez. 'We have our freedom, and that's why we're here. They did so much for us. At least we can give back a little bit.'

Dominguez’s willingness to volunteer exemplifies the spirit of Sheboygan and the surrounding area. Las Brisas, a popular local restaurant, is known for its authentic Mexican cuisine and commitment to community involvement. His participation underscores the interconnectedness of local businesses and the vital role they play in supporting community initiatives.

Samantha Huibregtse, a Sheboygan resident whose grandfather is a veteran, also signed up to volunteer after learning the breakfast might not happen. 'That can't happen,' she said, signing up to help. 'It's nice to see, especially the community coming together to help everybody. It's just heartwarming.'

Huibregtse’s reaction highlights the emotional significance of the breakfast for many local families. The event provides a unique opportunity for younger generations to connect with and honor their veteran relatives, fostering a sense of continuity and appreciation for their sacrifices. It's a reminder that honoring veterans isn't just a duty of the present but a responsibility to pass down to future generations.

For veterans attending the breakfast, the gathering offered more than a free meal. It was also a chance to reconnect with others and feel appreciated. Army veteran Michael Sachse served in South Korea at Camp Casey near Dongducheon, a city located about 40 miles north from Seoul, from 1971 to 1972. He became emotional as he reflected on the gathering, and also that fact that local community members stepped in to serve those who served our country.

Sachse’s service in South Korea during the Vietnam era placed him in a region experiencing significant political tension and military presence. The breakfast provides a sense of normalcy and camaraderie for veterans who may have experienced trauma or isolation during their service. The outpouring of support from the community reinforces their value and reminds them that their sacrifices are not forgotten.

Navy veteran Scott Metz said the community's response reflects what makes Sheboygan special. 'That's the thing about Sheboygan. When they see someone in trouble, they do what they can,' said Metz. 'They're the ones serving the ones who served. That's pretty much what they're doing, and that's what they consider it, so yeah, I feel really, really good to be part of this community.'

Metz’s sentiment encapsulates the strong sense of community pride that defines Sheboygan. The city, known for its manufacturing heritage and close-knit neighborhoods, consistently demonstrates a commitment to supporting its residents, especially those who have served in the military. This willingness to rally around a need speaks volumes about the character of the community.

The Broader Context of Volunteerism and Veteran Support

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The response in Sheboygan reflects a national trend of communities stepping up to support their veterans, particularly as organizations like the VFW face challenges in maintaining their programs. Across the country, local businesses and residents are increasingly recognizing the importance of honoring and assisting veterans, offering everything from job training and housing assistance to social and emotional support. This renewed focus on veteran well-being underscores a growing awareness of the sacrifices made by those who serve.

Looking Ahead

VFW Post 9156 House Committee Chair Ken Hemenway said the support was especially meaningful as the organization worked through a difficult transition. 'Things were in a bit of a turmoil, and there's a lot of things we didn't know. And all of a sudden, like I said before, the community stepped up to help us, and here they are,' said Hemenway. 'All of the community is behind us again, and that's wonderful.'

Hemenway’s comments emphasize the importance of community engagement in sustaining vital organizations like the VFW. The post’s experience serves as a reminder that even in times of uncertainty, the support of local residents can be a lifeline. The VFW plays a crucial role in advocating for veterans' benefits and providing essential services, and its continued viability is essential for the well-being of the veteran community.

He also encouraged veterans who are not members of the VFW or other veterans organizations to consider joining. Joining a veteran’s organization provides opportunities for continued camaraderie, advocacy, and support. It's a way to connect with others who share similar experiences and contribute to a collective effort to honor and serve those who have served.

Hephner, who is also the mother of three sons serving in the Army, Navy and Marine Corps, said supporting veterans is something the entire community can take part in. 'I think as a community, like, we have to show up for the people that show up for us, and whether that directly be veterans doesn't matter,' she said.

Hephner’s perspective highlights the broader responsibility of community members to support those who serve, regardless of whether they are veterans themselves. It’s a call for empathy, understanding, and a willingness to contribute to the well-being of others.

Beyond the breakfast, Hephner also donated 100 pairs of rechargeable hand warmers intended for people experiencing homelessness. She said she hopes to continue supporting local veterans and is already planning a Christmas dinner for them on Dec. 5.

Future Initiatives and Community Involvement

Hephner’s commitment to supporting local veterans extends beyond the Veterans Day breakfast. Her plans for a Christmas dinner demonstrate a long-term dedication to providing meaningful support and fostering a sense of community among veterans. This initiative, along with the donation of hand warmers, highlights her belief in addressing the holistic needs of veterans, including their physical and emotional well-being.

Resources

If you would like to support local veterans or the VFW, you can visit the VFW Post 9156 website at https://www.vfw.org/ or the Sheboygan City's official website at Visit Sheboygan City's official website. You can also explore the Sheboygan Chamber of Commerce at Explore the Sheboygan Chamber of Commerce for more local resources.